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My spouse hides small purchases from me — how do I bring this up

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Nothing huge — $15 here, $40 there — but over the last few months I've noticed charges on our shared card that my spouse either 'forgot about' or didn't mention. When I ask, they get defensive and say I'm 'being controlling.' I'm not trying to police every coffee. But we have a shared budget and th [Hidden]

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